Having recently returned from London and choosing to live in a small town
rather than the city, I thought I’d offer a few insights into ‘settling in’ for
those who are in a similar situation.
I’ve often read novels where the protagonist gets stressed out in ‘The Big
Smoke’, and through various twists of fate ends up in a small seaside or
country town. She always seems to find lifelong besties within the month
and have an honest, steady man pursuing her soon afterwards. Of
course the book ends with her settled in the new neighborhood and her
budding friendships strengthened by the community hardships they’ve
been through together (saving the town hall, evicting the local baddie,
getting a run-down farm back on track – you get the idea).
Having read enough of these books, I had a vague idea what happens
when you relocate to a quiet area – I have only to show up and the small
town magic happens. Things didn’t quite pan out this way…. As obvious
as it sounds, you have to make an effort to get to know people.
Common interests are probably the safest bet, so I set out to join a few
clubs and groups. We’re lucky enough to have a great town Facebook
page in Whitianga and I gleaned a lot of information there. The local Waka
Ama group was encouraging new members to join, so I decided to give it
a go. I meant to start with a social paddle but somehow ended up going
out with the men’s team – a very energetic beginning! Experiences so far
range from rowing out to see a pod of dolphins (picture below, I’m in
the second seat); to catching fish off the back of the Waka (and learning
to fillet them afterwards – a whole other story!). If you have a Waka Ama
group in your town (or anything similar) I highly recommend giving it a go.
Being a passionate reader I was keen to join a book club, but not finding
any, I created my own. Utilising the community Facebook page I posted
to see if anyone was interested in joining – and the ‘Whiti Book Club’ was
born. As well as books, a shared love of wine and cheese formed the
foundations of our group. Book clubs are a great way to meet people – so
if you don’t have one in your town, start your own!
There are a lot of fitness and sports groups about – I’m currently enjoying
a morning Zumba class in town, a weekly yoga class and am part of a
social netball team.
As well as all these groups, working for
Coromandel Life
has been a great
way of getting to know people. I’ve met many locals doing research at the
museum, interviewing people for articles and going to see our advertisers.
One of the things I love about living here is seeing a familiar face most
places I go. There’s something heartwarming about saying a cheery ‘hi’
as you pass by, or even stopping for a quick chat. So different from living
in London, where the social norm is to keep your head down – and god
forbid you make eye contact!
So, moving here wasn’t quite the picturesque story I imagined – but when
is life ever like that? I love being in such a peaceful environment and being
able to walk my dog on the beach every night. It’s taken longer than
expected but I know quite a few faces around town and am involved in
many local activities. Small town living might still be the life for me!
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